perasaan tentang CINTA. (maybe)

Salam Alaykum.

I just found this 'kata-kata hikmah' on others blog.

Tidak kira apa yang kau bicara,

Biar walau tentang cinta, iman mahupun takwa.

Suara yang lunak sudah diperdengar.

Sudah berani berjumpa di luar.

Dimanakah akan kau cari, Keindahan cinta selepas ini?

Alam perkahwinan tidak akan sama lagi.

Alam percintaan yang penuh dengan kata-kata indah.

Semuanya tidak kekal, melainkan dengan nikah.

Fikirkan. Masihkah halal cinta anda?

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And... this is my opinion. :)

. First of all, guys and girls can't be friends. When a girlfriend and a boyfriend are chilling, talking on the phone, talking about nonsense they are not alone. "but why? why we are not alone?"

Act, syaitan is your third party. You see, he 'tapped' into your phone long before the FBI but unlike the government, he doesn't just listen, he whispers. Having plenty of experiences dealing with human beings, he knows how guys and girls think and he did the combination of a guy's sexual desire and mix it with women's desire for attention with no mahrams in sight, you're only going down one direction, baby. :)

And, if you think the haram relationship will eventually bring you to tranquility... remember 50% of all these relationship ends up in divorce and this people are the one who love each other enough to get married. And, remember there are so many couples who don't get divorced but they stay married and miserable. You see, its because of their kids or because they wanna save money on taxes or.. for whatever reason. The point is - they're not happy. Which explains why there are so much cheating in these relationships. But then you ask, "whether the person that I am dating is a good Muslim that fears God?" 

My answer is if he is such a God-fearing Muslim, then why did his actions speaking otherwise? Think about it, if this person fears Allah S.W.T and has all his relationship before he gets married, then why did he expected to suddenly change, after he gets married?

My point is don't base your future on assumptions. Some people justify their haram relationship saying that, "Okay, we're going to do this until one day we get married. My question is, who guaranteed you that one day? I mean, no one would even guaranteed that you'd be alive tomorrow, right? what if, tomorrow never comes? then today you die, doing something haram. :)

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Yea.. I wrote this doesn't mean that I've no sins - all my deed is good. haha. We're human, right? Kita semua ada dosa. And, tak salah kalau kita saling menasihat.  I pun dulu buat jugak dosa bercinta ni. But then, I felt like... erk, macam takde harga diri pulak.

Sekarang, everyday at any time, I pray that "tolonglah, janganlah lepaskan perasaan ni dekat orang lain." And I really hope that I dapat peluang untuk bercinta selepas nikah. InshaAllah. Amin~

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Bagi yang agak terasa dengan opinion I dekat atas tu. I'm sorry. That's what I felt. I don't mind kalau you dah bercinta sebelum nikah. Nak buat macam mana kan. Tapi, kalau bercinta sebelum nikah, jangan 'over'. Bercinta ni... boleh, tapi jangan sampai jadi benda yang haram. Kita boleh berfikir kan, so fikirlah mana yang elok. Okay?

till then.

Love,

ShaziahSamsudin